Relationship and misconceptions
Deception is to think that a man who loves you
won't want to touch you. You hear Christian
ladies say "if he loves you, he won't even think of
having sex with you as a Christian." The truth is,
irrespective of a man's status or religious
inclinations, once he develops interest in you, the
subject of wanting you is already in the wings,
even though it may lie dormant."
A man who loves you will definitely want to have
sex with you! In fact, the deeper and more
intense the love is, the more he wants to
consummate his love for you quickly. It is both a
natural and a supernatural order, once the mind
is there, the body naturally follows.
The difference however between the carnal and
spiritual man is that, while they both feel and
want the same thing, the spiritual man has
control over his mind and body and as such won't
want to defy or defile you. The natural man has
no such control measures and is liable to follow
the direction of his erection.
So if you have been in that relationship for a
while and you are both keeping yourselves, don't
assume that he is so spiritual that he can't touch
you and won't touch you.
The bottom line is this: don't be gullible to the
extent that you believe nothing would happen,
even if he can speak in tongues from here to the
pacific. And watch out for signs- of absolute self-
control and respect for you in the area of sex. I
am not talking about you affirming this by saying
he has never had an erection near you, in this
case you even have to be sure he is not suffering
from erectile dysfunction. In fact, ask him to go
and do a test if your church doesn't normally
request for it. Is it as serious as that? Yeah, it is cheap modest prom dresses
very serious. Don't base your findings on the
absence of erection, let it be firmly assured by the
conditioning of his heart.
Is he a Christian brother? Watch out for the fear
of God in his life, that's what will keep and save
you both. Look out for the moment he withdraws
his hands and keeps them in his pockets, look out
for the periods his breathing becomes heavy and
he turns away momentarily from you, look out for
the times you are supposed to meet and he
cancels your meeting, look out for the fear of God
and the restraining ability of the Holy Spirit. In
those moments, help him as you can- in
demeanor and comportment, dressing and
carriage, words and conversations.
But most importantly, help him on your knees.
Help him approach heaven from your own end.
Are you thinking that is much work? actually, the
benefit is more of yours than his

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