RE: Usher & STDs, R.Kelly having sex with little girls (yes, teenagers are still children they are not women.), Kevin Hart cheating

More than anything my heart is saddened for the women they crossed paths with and women who cross paths with men like this everyday. The tales of these men, while different, tell an entire story. We see this happen all the time. Older men pursuing teenagers for the purposes of "grooming" and taking advantage of a power dynamic that wouldn't be a ... vailable with a woman his age. In these "situations", using protection is less likely to occur. Usually men can pressure their way into sex and out of a condom when dealing with teenagers. (This is a fact. Google is free. Go argue with someone who won't embarass you and kill your ego because EYE certainly will). This is how we're ending up with so many teenage mothers that have 21+ year old baby daddies. Sometimes when men are unable to pressure their way out of condoms, they secretly remove it also known as stealthing also known as rape. Men have been doing this for generations.

Keeping in mind that there's a "social stigma" about men going to doctors appointments and taking care of their bodies. With Usher's specific situation, it's reported that he was "asymptomatic" with the exception of "green ooze"/green precum exiting his penis. You have a discharge that's the wrong color and you don't think to get that checked out? This is what I mean when I explain to people that if a MAN tells you "he's clean", the truth is he has no idea what his status is because he won't go to the doctor because "social stigma". Usually men rely on previous sex partners to tell them if they (the men) gave them (their sex partner) an STD. Other than that most of them have no idea. extra sized ball styled items to wear of the wedding

Then keep in mind, they enjoy having multiple partners

They prey on teenagers. They don't know their status. They will pressure you into having sex. They will try to pressure you to have unprotected sex. If you say "no", they're going to take the condom off anyway. And then when they're done screwing you, they're going to their next partner to do the same thing.

My heart goes out to all the people in relationships/having sex with these kinds of people. My prayer is that you will have someone that will care about your physical health as well as their own.